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<blockquote data-quote="Weogo Reed" data-source="post: 131077" data-attributes="member: 1226">Re: A tad demoralisingHi Lisa, When possible, I hire women.Strong, take-charge women are great; I married one!At this point it sounds like you have little to lose by speaking directly with somebody at this company.Offer to buy this person lunch, in exchange for them listening to you.&nbsp; Tell this person how you can make money for their company.Make it clear that whatever happened or was said in the past, true or not, you wish to move past that and be a team player today.At worst, you are out a bit of time and the cost of a lunch.At best, you get a trial hire.If you get hired, do as you are told, to the letter, well, quickly and quietly.If you have problems, don&#039;t complain in the moment.&nbsp; Submit your issues in writing and ask for clarification on how you are supposed to handle similar situations in the future.With time your expertise will be recognized, or possibly somebody just won&#039;t like you and your best course will be to move on.&nbsp; Try to learn from whatever you get.Good luck!Thanks and good health,&nbsp; Weogo</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Weogo Reed, post: 131077, member: 1226"] Re: A tad demoralising Hi Lisa, When possible, I hire women. Strong, take-charge women are great; I married one! At this point it sounds like you have little to lose by speaking directly with somebody at this company. Offer to buy this person lunch, in exchange for them listening to you. Tell this person how you can make money for their company. Make it clear that whatever happened or was said in the past, true or not, you wish to move past that and be a team player today. At worst, you are out a bit of time and the cost of a lunch. At best, you get a trial hire. If you get hired, do as you are told, to the letter, well, quickly and quietly. If you have problems, don't complain in the moment. Submit your issues in writing and ask for clarification on how you are supposed to handle similar situations in the future. With time your expertise will be recognized, or possibly somebody just won't like you and your best course will be to move on. Try to learn from whatever you get. Good luck! Thanks and good health, Weogo [/QUOTE]

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